Vulva Massage

Begin the massage with breathing, eye gazing, and connecting the heart and genitals. Feeling safe, supported, and comfortable helps to build sexual trust. Patting, drumming, tapping, and vibrating wake up her body and yours.

Outer and inner labia, vulva, and clitoris--pressing, holding, rolling, pinching, vibrating, tugging, and stroking. “If in doubt, ask.”

A variety of strokes for vulva, clitoris, vagina, and G-spot. Jaiya models good communication as she guides Jon from the table. “Remind her to breathe into the pleasure and allow it to build.”

Bringing several strokes together for even more pleasure, the entire clitoris—head, shaft, and root—is massaged from many directions. Suggestions for ending the session with breath work and deep connection. Cast and Credits follow.

Joseph Kramer Ph.D. and Annie Sprinkle Ph.D. speak about developing the “Fire in the Valley” genital massage.

Joseph Kramer, Ph.D. and Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. speak about the joys of giving and receiving female genital massage.

Hear about the many benefits of enjoying female genital massage.

Learn how to begin a female genital massage with touch, breath, and connection.

Wake up the whole genital area with strokes such as “pussy petting” and “labia shiatsu.”

Learn how to squeeze the vulva to heighten pleasure.